Model
Behavior at Mealtime
There is
so much involved when children sit down to eat, following are some common
questions about mealtime that may help you and, more importantly, help
your child.
Q:
What can I do when my child wants to do things for himself?
A - Let
him! Preschoolers gain motor skills and a feeling of confidence from
pouring their own drinks and serving themselves. It may be messier than
doing it yourself, but a spill now and again is worth it when you see the
pride your child feels when he can "do it himself!
Q:
How can I teach my child manners?
A - Try
not to constantly remind children of saying "please" and
"thank you" . Instead, model it yourself. Nothing teaches the
value of saying "thank you more quickly than having a grown-up thank
a child.
Q:
Should I insist that my child sit at the table until everyone is finished?
A - Most
young children can't sit for long periods of time without becoming
restless. Also, if your child has finished the meal and is no longer
hungry, it's natural to not want to be around food. If you insist that
your child stay at the table, he might overeat or play inappropriately
with his food. As children become older, they'll be able to stay at the
table longer. |
